Discord alternative?
For privacy, Element would have to be the #1 Discord alternative since it has end-to-end encryption.
I'm personally not a huge fan of it due to its layouts and stuff, but hopefully it improves one day.
The best similar privacy friendly Discord alternative would have to be Revolt.
The only and main downside that I dislike about Revolt is messages aren't end-to-end encrypted, but its much more privacy friendly then Discord ever will be. Revolt